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2022.01.24 16:11 LadyAmalthea86 Streaming Fall Guys at 3pm EST. Link in the comments. Much silliness is sure to be had!

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2022.01.24 16:11 SirCheeseAlot Some Pete Walker quotes on Freeze types you might find useful.

Finally, freeze types and freeze subtypes also typically benefit from various types of movement therapy and aerobic exercise regimes. Moreover, assertiveness training and anger release work are especially helpful for survivors who have difficulty accessing their assertiveness or instincts of self-protection.
Untraumatized people also freeze appropriately and give up and quit struggling when further activity or resistance is futile or counterproductive. Additionally, the freeze response is sometimes our first response to danger, as when we become still, quiet and camouflaged to buy time, to assess the danger and decide whether fight, flight, continued freeze or fawn is our best option
Many freeze types hide away in their rooms and reveries fully convinced that the world of relating holds nothing for them. Freeze type who have not been totally turned off relationships by horrible childhood neglect or abuse, gravitate to online relationships. Online relating can be pursued safely at home with as little contact as desired.
The freeze response, also known as the camouflage response, often triggers a survivor into hiding, isolating and avoiding human contact. The freeze type can be so frozen in the retreat mode that it seems as if their starter button is stuck in the “off” position. Of all the 4F’s, freeze types seem to have the deepest unconscious belief that people and danger are synonymous. While all 4F types commonly suffer from social anxiety as well, freeze types typically take a great deal more refuge in solitude. Some freeze types completely give up on relating to others and become extremely isolated. Outside of fantasy, many also give up entirely on the possibility of love.
It is often the scapegoat or the most profoundly abandoned child, “the lost child”, who is forced to habituate to the freeze response. Not allowed to successfully employ fight, flight or fawn responses, the freeze type’s defenses develop around classical or right-brain dissociation. Dissociation allows the freeze type to disconnect from experiencing his abandonment pain, and protects him from risky social interactions - any of which might trigger feelings of being retraumatized. If you are a freeze type, you may seek refuge and comfort by dissociating in prolonged bouts of sleep, daydreaming, wishing and right-brain-dominant activities like TV, online browsing and video games. Freeze types sometimes have or appear to have Attention Deficit Disorder [ADD]. They often master the art of changing the internal channel whenever inner experience becomes uncomfortable. When they are especially traumatized or triggered, they may exhibit a schizoidlike detachment from ordinary reality. And in worst case scenarios, they can decompensate into a schizophrenic experience like the main character in the book, I Never Promised You a Rose Garden.
Recovery for freeze types involves three key challenges. First, their positive relational experiences are few if any. They are therefore extremely reluctant to enter into the type of intimate relationship that can be transformative. They are even less likely to seek the aid of therapy. Moreover, those who manage to overcome this reluctance often spook easily and quickly terminate. Second, freeze types have two commonalities with fight types. They are less motivated to try to understand the effects of their childhood traumatization. Many are unaware that they have a troublesome inner critic or that they are in emotional pain. Furthermore, they tend to project the perfectionistic demands of the critic onto others rather than onto themselves. This survival mechanism helped them as children to use the imperfections of others as justification for isolation. In the past, isolation was smart, safety-seeking behavior. Third, even more than workaholic flight types, freeze types are in denial about the life narrowing consequences of their singular adaptation. Some freeze types that I have worked with seem to have significant periods of contentment with their isolation. I think they may be able to self-medicate by releasing the internal opioids that the animal brain is programmed to release when danger is so great that death seems imminent. Internal opioid release is more accessible to freeze types because the freeze response has its own continuum that culminates with the collapse response. The collapse response is an extreme abandonment of consciousness. It appears to be an out-of-body experience that is the ultimate dissociation. It can sometimes be seen in prey animals that are about to be killed. I have seen nature films of small animals in the jaws of a predator that show it letting go so thoroughly that its death appears to be painless. However, the opioid production that some freeze types have access to, only takes the survivor so far before its analgesic properties no longer function. Numbed out contentment then morphs into serious depression. This in turn can lead to addictive self-medicating with substances like alcohol, marijuana and narcotics. Alternatively, the freeze type can gravitate toward ever escalating regimens of anti-depressants and anxiolytics. I also suspect that some schizophrenics are extremely traumatized freeze types who dissociate so thoroughly that they cannot find their way back to reality. Several of my freeze type respondents highly recommend a self-help book by Suzette Boon, entitled Coping with Trauma-related Dissociation. This book is filled with very helpful work sheets that are powerful tools for recovering. More than any other type, the freeze type usually requires a therapeutic relationship, because their isolation prevents them from discovering relational healing through a friendship. That said, I know of some instances where good enough relational healing has come through pets and the safer distant type of human healing that can be found in books and online internet groups.
The progression of recovery for a freeze type is often as follows. Gradual trust building allows the recoveree to open to psychoeducation about the role of dreadful parenting in his suffering. This then paves the way for the work of shrinking his critic, which in turn promotes the work of grieving the losses of childhood. The anger work of grieving is especially therapeutic for freeze types as is an aerobic exercise regime. Both help resuscitate the survivor’s dormant will and drive.
The Flight-Freeze type is the least relational and most schizoid hybrid. He prefers the safety of do-it-yourself isolationism. Sometimes this type may also be misdiagnosed as Asperger’s Syndrome. The flight-freeze type avoids potential relationship-retraumati-zation with an obsessivecompulsive/dissociative “two-step.” Step one is working to complete exhaustion. Step two is collapsing into extreme “veging out”, and waiting until his energy reaccumulates enough torelaunch into step one. The price for this type of no-longer-necessary safety is a severely narrowed existence. The flight-freeze cul-de-sac is more common among men, especially those traumatized for being vulnerable in childhood. This then drives them to seek safety in isolation or “intimacy-lite” relationships. Some non-alpha type male survivors combine their flight and freeze defenses to become stereotypical technology nerds. Telecommuting is, of course, their preferred mode. Flight-freeze types are the computer addicts who focus on work for long periods of time and then drift off dissociatively into computer games, substance abuse or sleep-bingeing. Flight-freeze types are prone to becoming porn addicts. When in flight mode, they obsessively surf the net for phantom partners and engage in compulsive masturbation. When in freeze mode, they drift off into a right-brain sexual fantasy world if pornography is unavailable. Moreover, if they are in intimacy-lite relationship, they typically engage more with their idealized fantasy partners than with their actual partner during real time sexual interactions.
These types rarely seek recovery on their own initiative. A colleague of mine told me about a fight-freeze type who was dragged into therapy by his wife. She complained that she was lucky to get ten words out of him in a week. She was at the end of her rope and if therapy did not fix him, she was filing for divorce. The husband was a computer engineer who telecommuted and only left his home office for bathroom breaks and meals which were eaten separately from his wife. He bullied his wife into providing these meals according to a written schedule that he e-mailed to her. My colleague’s initial “Hello” to the husband was met with a scowl and a grunt. Intuitively, she kept the focus off him as much as possible, but each delicate attempt to make connection with him was rebuffed with sarcastic scorn. “You expect me to fall for that phony smile?”; “You’re not gonna shrink me with your psychobabble!” My colleague, who is the most compassionate, non-intrusive person I know, was not able to crack the prickly fight shell that guarded this poor man’s extreme social withdrawal. No miracle was performed, and my colleague said she was amazed in retrospect that he even lasted twenty minutes before he left in a wake of hostility and resentment. I have met with fight-freeze types a few times in similar circumstances, i.e., they were dragged into therapy under the threat of divorce. Each was like the character in the famous poem: “The Autocrat at the Breakfast Table.” The fight-freeze is a yin or passive narcissist. He demands that things go his way, but he is not much interested in having any human interaction. No one gets to talk at the table, not even him – unless of course someone needs to be put in their place. The fight-freeze type is a John Wayne couch potato, dominating family life with foul moods and monosyllabic grunts and curses. He is typically as untreatable as the extreme fight types mentioned earlier.
The toddler who bypasses the adaptation of the flight defense may drift into developing the freeze response and become the “lost child.” This child escapes his fear by slipping more and more deeply into dissociation. He learns to let his parents’ verbal and emotional abuse “go in one ear and out the other.” It is not uncommon for this type to devolve in adolescence into the numbing substance addictions of pot, alcohol, opiates and other “downers”.
The fawn-freeze is typically the most codependently entrenched subtype. Not all scapegoats are fawn-freeze, but since fawn and freeze types are both prone to extreme self-denial, many end up in a scapegoat position. This is also because these are the two most passive of the four F’s. They have both typically suffered the most punishment or rejection for asserting themselves in the toddler stage. When the fawn-freeze is not able to escape the scapegoat role in childhood, she is then set up to be similarly victimized in adulthood. In worst case scenarios fawn-freezes are easily recognized by fight types who take them captive. They may then turn them into doormats and subject them to domestic violence [DV]. Sometimes, the fawn-freeze does not even recognize that she is being abused. Other times she blames herself [as she had to in childhood]
As stated earlier, perfectionism also seems to be an instinctual defense for emotionally abandoned children. The existential impossibility of perfection saves the child from giving up, unless or until lack of success forces her to retreat into a dissociative freeze response or an antisocial fight response. Perfectionism also provides a sense of meaning and direction for the powerless and unsupported child. Striving to be perfect offers her a semblance of a sense of control. Selfcontrol is also safer to pursue because abandoning parents typically reserve their severest punishment for children who are vocal about their negligence. As the quest for perfection fails over and over, and as parental acceptance and nurturing remain elusive, imperfection becomes synonymous with shame and fear. Perceived imperfection triggers fear of abandonment, which triggers self-hate for imperfection, which expands abandonment into self-abandonment. This in turn amps fear up even further, which in turn intensifies self-disgust, etc. On and on it goes in a downward spiral of fear and shame-encrusted depression. It can go on for hours, days, weeks, and for those with severe Cptsd, can become their standard mode of being
Freeze and Fight types are often polarized to the outer critic. Fawn types tend to be dominated by the inner critic. Flight types can have the most variance in inner and outer critic ratio. Your subtype can also have a big influence on this. The Freeze type can judgmentally denounce the entire outside world to justify her all-ornone belief that people are dangerous.
Dissociation is a defense that children develop to distract and protect themselves from the overwhelming pain of their abandonment. As unsupported children, we have to dissociate because we are not able to effectively grieve. We have to protect ourselves by not allowing the full brunt of our pain into awareness. As we saw in chapter 6, there are two common types of dissociation: right-brain dissociation and left-brain dissociation. Right-brain dissociation can be seen as classical dissociation and as the defense most common to freeze types. It is the right-brain process of numbing out against intense feeling or incessant inner critic attack. Dissociation is once again a process of distraction. Survivorscommonly experience it as getting lost in fantasy, fogginess, TV, tiredness or sleep.
The Freeze/Dissociative type, who learned early to seek safety in the camouflage of silence, often needs a great deal of encouragement to discover and talk about his inner experience. Psychoeducation can help him understand how his healthy narcissistic need to express himself was never nurtured in his family. Furthermore, freeze types can easily get lost in superficial and barely relevant free associations as they struggle to learn to talk about themselves. This of course needs to be welcomed for some time, but eventually we must help him see that his flights of fantasy or endless dream elaborations are primarily manifestations of his dissociative defense. Freeze types need to learn that emotionally disconnected talking is an old childhood habit that was developed to keep them buoyant above their undealt with emotional pain. Because of this, we must repeatedly guide them toward their feelings so that they can learn to express their most important concerns.
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2022.01.24 16:11 watan592 استعداد ايراني للتفاوض المباشر مع الولايات المتحدة الامريكية .. تفاصيل

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2022.01.24 16:11 CrookZzZzZ 🎉NFT GIVEAWAY!!🎉

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2022.01.24 16:11 Mysecondaccount_2 Jess Hart with cornrows and cartilage piercings

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2022.01.24 16:11 wannabeacowboyy new relationship, lesbian, think my addiction will get in the way

recently i got into a relationship with someone who i have considered my best friend and of course, my lover. they’re so supportive in many ways and really know how to initiate things which leaves me so speechless. it makes me think of when we’ll be able to actually do the deed and what i’m going to do because honestly, all i’ve ever really known came from porn. i started out really young, i’m 19 now and a couple months ago i was able to get off without it (such a win) but i’ve sort of relapsed again. with everything good in my life happening, i keep finding ways to destroy myself in small ways and porn has become one of them. i’m a lesbian, by the way, and i think it’s very funny that many other lesbians carry themselves as experts on sex, when it comes to pleasing themselves or their partners but i don’t know if anyway can completely call themselves an expert, no matter who they are.
anyway, when i was last with my girlfriend, i think we really tried to do certain things and i felt good, but i felt guilty because of that addiction. and i always think about what would’ve happened if we went further? i also bought toys for myself, and i don’t know if i can turn back around from that purchase lmao. point is, i don’t know how to shake off this guilty feeling and i feel like my addiction is going to get in the way in the future. i’m kinda scared. i care about them so much and i don’t want to ruin anything. i don’t really know what to do or how to feel.
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2022.01.24 16:11 ImportantComposer383 question about photo selection for women who use dating apps…

Doesn’t matter if I wear a tent, or bikini top; my bust is large, and people notice. In the past, I’ve intentionally used photos that would be considered modest to avoid the “wrong” crowd online. My efforts were futile because regardless of clothing choices, there were plenty of weirdos and people who made the wrong assumption about me.What are your thoughts on showing “skin” in photos online? My frustration lies within the fact that someone with a smaller bust could wear the same thing and no one would bat an eye. I’m 24 and believe as a fully grown woman I should be able to wear a TANK TOP without being perceived in a hyper-sexual manner but that isn’t how the world works unfortunately.
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2022.01.24 16:11 budgetcooking First try a year ago vs last night 🌸

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2022.01.24 16:11 lacunaluna Monch

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2022.01.24 16:11 Channelbot_Reborn Traded my GT3RS for a New 992 GT3!

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2022.01.24 16:11 Falconwv Least favorite character

I'm loving the grimm community! 😊
Quick question: Who is your least favorite (main) character? I'll go first... Juliette
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2022.01.24 16:11 TheKappaOne 11 Pro vs 11 Pro Max in 2022

Need a new phone and I'm thinking on picking up a 11 Pro or a Pro Max (or a pixel 6 but I heard the battery sucks)
I can get the 11 Pro or the Pro Max for the same price 256gb at 630€.
I need a great battery phone but I the 11 Pro form factor is perfect for me, the PM might be too big for my hands.
How is the 11 Pro battery? Thats the only big difference between then right?
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2022.01.24 16:11 papercut2008uk I've been taking Gaviscon for years, now I can't, what can I do?

I have IBS, Acid reflux has always been an issue too, heartburn and indigestion.
I am on a PPI, but need something else as well, so use Gaviscon Advance.
I've been on these for at least 10 or more years. But recently my doctor done a routine test and found blood in my urine. I'm sure it was probably from the Gaviscon causing kidney stones (can it?) so stopped taking it.
I had other symptoms that I guess I lived with over the years. What I thought was just a decline in health and might be down to my antidepressants cleared up as soon as I stopped taking Gaviscon. No more headaches, no more brain fog, no more confusion, no kidney pain (only would get it occasionally).
Now as soon as I take even the smallest amount of Gaviscon now, I get a headache, brain fog and confusion.
Now I don't know what to do, I can't keep using Gaviscon, but any other anti acid is basically the same mix!
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2022.01.24 16:11 Mr__X__ What’s the total amount of lines we can have on a max plan?

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2022.01.24 16:11 duoinvasion Whats a thing about air fryers that you hate about them?

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2022.01.24 16:11 TheWitchySniffy My first death as a CNA.

I’m a 20F and got my CNA back in 2020 but due to covid the places around me did not want to hire a brand new CNA. I have had 7 shifts so far.
I had my first death yesterday and it was a struggle for the resident. They were struggling for around 16 hours and I was there for the last 6 and then prepared the body.
My CNA school didn’t prepare me at all. Any tips on processing this or the inevitable others would be greatly appreciated or things I could experience going forward.
I still absolutely love my job and I can not wait to go back but it has been a little difficult.
Thank you! I know the nurses will help :) <3
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2022.01.24 16:11 impossibletreesloth Can someone help identify this? We collect eggs daily & we do have a rooster.

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2022.01.24 16:11 iaintabotdotcom Please Check My Math!!!

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2022.01.24 16:11 TransfemnamedGianna The age of consent should NOT be lowered

It should stay right where it fuckin is
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2022.01.24 16:11 SiD_-_-_ Oh really...

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2022.01.24 16:11 Axolittle_axolotl Pink toe beans on Pippy :)

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2022.01.24 16:11 Germanloser2u is there a limit to how hot the rocket can get when reentering? my record was 18725 °C without cheats. does it get any higher?

i thought writing here was optional but it isnt so dont mind this text
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2022.01.24 16:11 JonahJJamesonV2 Guys, we need to talk about Bully Maguire

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2022.01.24 16:11 Hellvetic91 Tonight I decided to open a bottle of good wine Okayge

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2022.01.24 16:11 Gourdad Gotta Have a Rubber (What? What?) or I'm in Trouble (What? What? Slatt)

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