I have Kafkian marriage

2022.01.24 16:33 DrPhollox I have Kafkian marriage

I feel like, since I got marriage, most of my energies have been directed to trying to please my wife. But she's a very insecure and indecisive person. Which was was kinda cute, but then important decisions have to be made and pleasing her in her indecisiveness meant compromising. Postponing career goals so she could achieve hers. And then the scorn started. We drifted apart. I started to feel like I was living in a Kafka play.
Everything I was doing was by definition wrong. Every possible outcome was criticized. Every action, every conversation lead to a discussion. A fight that I eventually always gave up, because I hate conflicts.
After many years in this exhausting environment, I stopped trying. Because if everything I was doing is wrong, at least I'm going to do the thing that takes the least amount of effort to get to that everlasting hostile state.
And I don't know what to do. Communication is broken since a long time. I tried to rebuild it slowly but she told me that she felt uncomfortable speaking with me. But if I remain silent, then I never talk. This chat is on repeat for us. And I avoid conflict. But she looks for conflict. Maybe because conflict is the only way we can communicate now. But it's hurtful. And I avoid her even more
She kicked me out. Like "you're never here. You mind as well move out. NOW". She said that many many times these past few months. Last week I actually packed and stayed in a hotel. And I started to look around for an studio apartment. And she got mad because apparently that means that I'm motivated. But If I don't do it, then I did not have a plan and I'm wasting money in hotels.
I asked her if she would rather have me sleeping on the streets. Now is her the one who doesn't answer
Seriously, I don't know what else to do
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2022.01.24 16:33 Greatatlantic Macros to create SQL variable list?

I have worked with SAS for years but am mostly self taught and am trying to improve the robustness and flexibility of some of the legacy code I am working with. Essentially, I need to self join a table with many variables to get YoY changes, but I want to be able to just list out specific variables to include.
A simple version of the data I'm working with is like this
Year State X1 X2 X3 ... X50
2005 TX 17 5 8.... 2
2006 TX 18 9 7.... 3

While it would be easy for me to write a loop that does this join for every variable, that is computationally to much. What I want is a join like below, except easy to change the variables.
Create Table YoY_Selected AS
Select a.*
, b.X2/a.X2 AS X2_YOY
, b.X30/a.X30 AS X30_YOY
From My_Table AS a
Left Join My_Table AS b
on a.year=b.year+1
and a.state=b.state;

Now, If I had a list, such as %Let YoY_List = X2 X30 X32 X48; Is it possible to write a macro that will it into the bottom half of the above join?
Thank you in advance for any insight or help! I've spent half a day at least on search engines and am coming up empty.

PS) Some time years are missing for some states, hence it needs to be a join (not lag in data step), plus its actually quarters and what I really need to calculate is a moving average.
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